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Dynamics of Family Interaction Exam 1
Chapters 1-4
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Undergraduate 3
10/01/2010

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Why does family matter?
Definition

Provides Emotional/Attachment bonds which are critical for good health

gives us identity and purpose (via roles), and impact development of self-esteem

By nature, we are interdependent beings

Family relationships provide a resource for dealing with stress

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Boundary Ambiguity
Definition

uncertainty about who is in the family and who isn't

Can occur following divorce or other family units similar

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Family
Definition
Networks of people who share their lives over long periods of time bound by ties of marriage, blood, law, or commitment, legal or otherwise, who consider themselves a family and who share a significant history and anticipated future of functioning in a family relationship
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Coontz article
Definition

Polarization of experiences today creates new problems due to women's working and child care

A family never existed, and diversity in family forms has always been the "norm"

 

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2-parent biological
Definition
Parents and children from unity of family
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Single-parent family/Primary parent family
Definition
One parent and one (or more) children
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Blended/Step Family
Definition
two adults and their children, some of whom are not from the union of their relationship
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Extended/Intergenerational family
Definition
Addition of blood relatives, other than the parents, to the everyday life of a child unit
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Intentional Family
Definition
A pari, or group, of people, some or all of whom are unrelated biologically or legally, who share a commitment and consider themselves family
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Committed partners
Definition
married couples who are childfree, cohabitating homosexual couples, and gay male and lesbian partners who consider themselves family
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Communication
Definition
a symbolic transactional process of creating and sharing meanings
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Metacommunication
Definition
communicating about our communication
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2 Levels of Communication:

Content message

Relational message

Definition

Content:  What is said

Rational: How it is said

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Family Cohesion
Definition
emotional bonding that family members experience, including separateness and correctedness
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Family adaptability/Flexibility
Definition
amount of change in leadership
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Cohesion:

 

Definition

Disengaged

Separated

Connected

Enmeshed

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Adaptability/Flexibility
Definition

Rigid

Structured

Flexible

Chaotic

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Relational dialectics
Definition
Need for family members to spontaneously experience interdependence and connection or openness and privacy
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Family of Origin
Definition
family in which a person is raised
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Systems Perspective
Definition
When individuals come together to form relationships, what is created is larger and more complex (the whole is greater than the sum of its parts)
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Wholeness
Definition
The WHOLE is greater than the sum of its parts
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Interdependence
Definition
Family Systems have interrelated parts that mutually influence one another
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Calibration
Definition
Although systems are capable of cahnge, they tend to seek homeostasis
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Maintenance Feedback
Definition
Minimizing change
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Change-promoting feedback
Definition
enabling system to grow
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Interactive Complexity
Definition
A system perspective implies a move awya from thinking bout cause and effect
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Circular Causality
Definition
System thinking (non-linear) understands that eery behavioral response is also a stimulus that itself elicits a response
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Triangles
Definition
Think of "3's"
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Social Constructionism
Definition
Individuals make and remake their social worlds through their interactions and at same time, they are made and remade by said social settings
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Dialectical Theory
Definition
Family life is characterized by ongoing tensions
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Constructive rules
Definition
what counts as what in communication
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Regulative rules
Definition
acceptable communication behavior (what nad how)
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Sweet Secrets
Definition
Purpose of fun or suprise, usually time limited
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Essential Secrets
Definition
Promote necessary boundaries
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Toxic Secrets
Definition
Poisons family relationships; key stories that remain untold and unavailable
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Dangerous Secrets
Definition
Put people in immediate physical jeopardy
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Bonding
Definition
Sharing a secret increases cohesiveness
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Evaluation
Definition
Helps avoid negative judgment
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Maintenance
Definition
Protect family members from stressors
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Privacy
Definition
information seen as personal or irrelevant to others
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