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| Interpersonal communication requires what 3 things? |
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1. at least 2 people
2. Established relationship
3. Some kind of connection |
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| 5 Axioms of Interpersonal communication |
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Transactional - Give and take
Ambiguous - subject to interpretation
Inevitable - Will happen
Irreversible - Will always be a part of the relationship
Unrepeatable - Won't work the same way twice. |
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| An interaction between 2 people |
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| 5 Purposes of Interpersonal communication |
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| Learn Relate Influence Help Play |
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| When people form groups with a common goal (ie survivor) |
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| This term says that even in larger groups, communication breaks down to interpersonal |
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| What is denoted by use of we vs I in terms of a dyad? |
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| What are the four major types of relationships? |
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| Family, Friend, Work, Romantic |
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| What is the difference between a message encoder & decoder? |
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Encoder delivers the message
Decoder receives the message |
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| What is the term for things that interfere with the transmission of a message? |
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| What are the 4 types of noise? |
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Physical (loud radio, loud bar etc), Physiological (like being hard of hearing)
Psychological (Not focused)
Semantic (misunderstandings, regional, cultural) |
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| What are the 2 concepts of self? |
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Self concept (how you see yourself
Self Awareness (how others see you) |
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| The value you place on yourself is what? |
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| What 3 things make up self concept? |
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1. How others treat you
2. Comparing yourself to others
3. What your culture says about you (ie weight issues) |
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| Ways to Increase self esteem |
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1. Self fulfilling prophecies
2, Attack self destructive behaviors (I Have to....)
3.Increase nourishing, decrease noxious people |
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| How do you create a self-fulfilling prophecy? |
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(The Secret)
1. Form a belief
2. Act as if true
3. Your actions will make it happen
4. It will strengthen your belief |
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| Name the 6 stages of Interpersonal Relationships |
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1. Contact
2. Involvement
3. Intimacy
4. Deterioration
5. Repair
6. Dissolution |
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| Describe phase 2 of Interpersonal relationships |
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| Phase 2 is involvement - the start of testing |
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| What are the 5 methods of testing in Phase 2 |
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1. Direct (ask)
2. Indirect (mention something and watch respose
3. Public presentation (use the "boyfriend" term casually and see what happens
4. Separation - withdraw and watch the reaction
5. Ask 3rd party (friend) |
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| What are 2 things that indicate the intimacy phase? |
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Commitment - private bonding
Social bonding - involving friends |
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| According to studies, at what year does commitment to marriage exceed attraction? |
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| What are the 2 facets of deterioration? |
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intrapersonal - how you feel or think about the relationship
Interpersonal - act out your unhappiness |
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| What would prevent a relationship from being repaired? |
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| Both people won't participate |
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| What influences level of self-disclosure? |
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1 who you are (more outgoing disclose more
2. Culture
3. Gender |
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| What encourages higher self-disclosure in online dating? |
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| Disinhibition effect - less risk of rejection increases comfort in self-disclosure |
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| What are the 4 squares of Jahari's window? |
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| What category of the Jahari's window includes things like you have bad breath? |
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| What effect do experiences have on the Jahari window? |
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| They increase open and decrease Unknown |
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| What can you do to increase your self awareness? |
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Make a bucket list
Listen to others
Actively seek information |
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| What is the biggest advantages of online dating? |
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Opens your circle of possibilities
Disinhibition |
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| In the Jahari's window, if something is known to others and not to you, it is ________. |
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