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revelation of personal information about ourselves that others are unlikely to learn in other ways |
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what are three benefits of self-disclosing |
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enhances closeness between people, encourages others to self-disclose, helps us accept ourselves |
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a model that describes different kinds of individual knowledge |
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what are the four panes of the johari window |
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open, blind, hidden, unknown |
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can info move from one pane to another? give an example |
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yes. someone could be a good singer, but it's in the unknown section. they sing in a choir and it moves to the open section. |
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why is it important to gain access to information in the blind and unknown areas of the johari window |
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a health self-concept requires self-knowledge |
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at what pace should self-disclosure take place? |
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does self-disclosure in a relationship tend to increase or decrease over time? |
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what are three risks of self-disclosure? |
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rejection, can have the info used against you, these thoughts could hurt others |
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what are the three level of confirmation |
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acknowledgment, recognition, endorsement |
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what is an example of each level of confirmation |
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recognition - saying hi. acknowledgment - paraphrasing what someone says. endorsement - accepting one's opinions as valid. |
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what is the underlying message when we confirm someone |
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what is the underlying message when we disconfirm someone? |
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what are the six types of communication that promote defensive climates and the six contrasting types of communication that foster supportive climates? |
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evaluative vs. descriptive. strategic vs. spontaneity. superiority vs. equality. certainty vs. provisionalism. control vs. problem orientation. neutrality vs. empathy |
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what is the definition of verbal communication? |
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what are the three features of symbols |
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arbitrary, ambiguity, abstract |
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why are symbols considered to be arbitrary? |
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not connected to what they mean |
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why are symbols considered to be ambiguous |
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they don't have precise, set meanings |
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why are symbols considered to be abstract? |
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they're not concrete or tangible |
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what are the three principles of communication that we studied |
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interpretation creates meaning, communication is guided by rules, punctuation affects meanings |
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how does interpretation create meaning? |
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we interpret symbols to determine what they mean |
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what is the definition of a regulative rule? give an example? |
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regulate interaction by specifying when, how, where, and with whom to communicate. ex. my family doesn't argue at dinner, others do |
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what is the definition of a constitutive rule? give an example? |
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define what a particular communication means or stands for. a good friend consoles you when you're sad |
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how can differences in they way two people punctuate cause problems |
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it can cause conflict and change meaning |
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what is totalizing, give an example |
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obsessing over one part of a person and ignoring their other traits. |
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what is a problem with totalizing? |
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we ignore who they really are |
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what is the definition of loaded language? |
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words that strongly slant perceptions and meanings |
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what is a problem with loaded language? |
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it encourages negative views |
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what is the difference between the "I" and the "me" in Mead's theory? |
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the "I" is the spontaneous self, the "me" is aware of consequences |
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